Divorce is challenging for everyone who experiences it. Of course, how difficult a divorce is depends on various factors, including how prepared the individuals are. Careful planning and consideration can help make this process smoother and help you along the way.
Understand your finances
Gather your financial documentation early, and know that hiding financial documents is illegal and, most times, people get caught. The court does not like to face individuals who try to pull tricks, so it is best to be honest and upfront with your attorney and the court.
Know your assets and debts
Have a clear idea of what you have and how much you owe. This will be critical when negotiating for support and/or deciding how much money you need, whether you will return to work and other important decisions that will require big-picture planning.
Establish a support system
Most people underestimate how difficult divorce is. Even if you plan it, and even if you are the one filing, it can often still feel like the rug is being pulled from under you unexpectedly, and that can be a scary feeling. Have a circle of people you can talk to when you need to.
Talk to an attorney
Even though courts often let individuals know they do not need an attorney for divorce, having one can make a difference. Divorce attorneys know the lay of the land and how the court system works, and, most importantly, they can negotiate clearly and fairly to ensure the best settlement for you.